This is the happiest, most joyful time of the year. Or it is supposed to be, so I thought it appropriate to remind you that regardless of evidence to the contrary, there is always joy to be found. I learned this from my mom who was the most perennially positive person I have ever known. Personally, I tend to melancholy, but having been raised within the realm of her spirit of joy, I am now the most upbeat melancholic you will ever meet.
Mom sang – whether to express actual joy or to bring it when it was flagging. She would just burst into a specific song, ring out a few notes, or hum. She would also ‘throng’ (her word) upon the piano. I find myself doing the same, usually making up nonsense verses based on known songs. This is because I discovered as I moved farther into adulthood that the singing was like a talisman against negativity.
Singing is my ritual. There is a work pod of 4 people that I know that have started a ritual with a little bear that can be posed. The bear gets moved around the pod and finding the bear brings a sudden smile.
There is a power to ritual that we modern people seem to have forgotten. We leave rituals inside the place of worship for the most part and we shouldn’t. Rituals are soothing and can focus or refocus the mind to a more positive bent in the midst of a hectic day. The one ritual I can think of outside of religion is the making and drinking of tea.
“Happiness is the whole aim and end of human existence.”
~Aristotle, The Nicomachean Ethics
Rut is the ugly side of rituals; these are bad habits that we get into that encourage negative feelings for the most part. You should root ruts out of your day by replacing them with simple rituals that will refocus your mind to the potential good things going on.
6 Happiness Tools from What Happy People Know:
- Personal Power
- Leading with your Strengths
- The Power of Language & Stories
- Multidimensional Living
Dan Baker, PhD. & Cameron Stauth
I hope you discover some joyful rituals in the coming days. And if you hear someone humming down the aisle from you in the store, it might be me so give that person a smile as you pass.
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